<![CDATA[Blog - metro personal consultants]]>http://www.metropersonal.com.au/en-usThu, 23 Feb 2012 10:13:58 -1100Thu, 23 Feb 2012 10:13:58 -1100eva@metropersonal.com.au<![CDATA[Am I hopeless?]]>http://www.metropersonal.com.au/blog/am-i-hopeless/Welcome to my blog. My name is Eva Chen, a relationship consultant for 17 years.

Everyday I met many lovely people, who are searching for happiness. No one believes they have problem to be attracted. But they thought they are hopeless.

Are they really hopeless? Why nice people are struggling in relationship?

You are welcome to share personal experience, or thoughts. Let's mak this little area as "solution zone".

 

Why he stops being romantic?     

My girl friend has been felling sad for few weeks. Her boy friend of 2 months is not as enthusiastic like before. He doesn't call her every day.  There is no flowers, either. She is wondering "does he still love me?"

How many guys can keep being smooth forever? How many guys will be "hopelessly remantic" after the excitment is gone?

 

Our Elders

Whole society is consciously protecting our children. Everyone hates the person or action to hurt children. But what about our elders?

Our parents, grandparents had given all their emotion, money and time to raise us, taking us to university, caring about our wellbeing even when we have our own family. Now they are old, they are vulnerable. Are we trying to protect them as much as we are protecting our children?

From generation to generation the level of love and care from parents to children and from children to parents can hardly balance.
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Talk to the one you love
 
Some tips:

1. Giving compliments ------------------ evens criticism
2. smile with sense of humor. ----------- make people less offensive
3. talking right thing at right time ---- people want to listen
4. stop talking at right time ---------- giving space
5. using right body language ---------- avoid argument and fight
6. using gentle tongue ----------------- you are a winner!

 

 

strategic plan

Tonight I heard twice the word of "strategic plan" at two separate occasions. All the successful business people know this word too well. Without this word, they wouldn't be successful.

If business success needs strategic plan, how about relationship? The principle of success is same, unless we are not committed.

Like other success, to find the right one, we also need to set-up a goal. Not only goal, we need a plan and a dead line to achieve it. Not only plan and dead line, we need action to make it a success. How many people can relate to this?

 

 

Why we need network?

Men hate women's friends network, because friends often try to give lot of "advice". Friends' advice often make relationship complicated. But men don't understand why women need a network.
 It is because men have no patience, listening to women's emotion, their stories.

 

Is Marriage Wonderful?

Today I got 2 calls from 2 different couples. They just got married. One couple also sent me the video of their wedding ceremony. Watching their big moment brought tears in my eyes.

Regardless how negative people feel about marriage, it is still the most wonderful committment two people have made to each other. They need more efforts to make it work, but who can forget that moment when the husband put the ring on wife's finger?

Never be afraid to gett married. It is wonderful!

 

 

When i see , I know

Asking a man what kind of woman he is looking for, he will naturally tell you: when I see her, I just know.

Many women hate men being so visual, so shallow. Unfortunatley that is what men are. Some smart ladies spend lot of money to make themselves beautiful. They call it "investment". Often they receive good "return" for that investment. 

 

 

First love, second chance

One of the biggest TV production company is preparing a life TV program: First love, second chance.

Question: Does first love have second chance?

a. am I still attracted to him after that many years?
b. would he be still so charming after having 3 children?
c. would I trust him if he runs away from his family for me?
d. would I forget why I didn't like him before?

Does he deserve another chance?
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