Secrets For Women
10 Things Men Don’t Want Women To Know:
--------------------By Eva Chen----------------------
1. Men are visual and physical. They would chase a woman only when they are visually aroused. No matter how hard it is , men will try everything to win her heart. However men will be lazy, or do nothing if a woman can’t physically bring attraction to them. Man’s line is: If the cover is not interesting, why would I want to read the book?
2. Men make quick judgment when they meet a woman. “Either there or never.” Usually they don’t change this judgment even they have spent long time with that woman. Scary but true!
3. Before finding the right one, men will use women sexually . But he will tell the truth if she has courage to ask directly and openly about his attention. Woman can be equal and even the boss if she is brave enough.
4. Men’s hearts go through their ego! They fall in love when the ego is satisfied, or they fall out of love if the ego is challenged. To lift up men’s ego, women should praise them, recognize their achievements, and ask for their help. Works every time.
5. Men need their freedom and space, including spending time on their own, or with their friends, or being messy at home. They feel threatened if women take freedom and space away from them.
6. Men hate arguing with women. Too many arguments will push them away from relationship. They expect women to provide a peaceful land, so they can take a rest after fighting and winning in the real world. Sometimes their departure has no notice, no warning…and whoosh they are gone physically. Warning: actually they will have left emotionally long before.
7. Men do not keep their initial excitement very long. They will slow down, becoming too contented and sometimes even being lazy after knowing a woman for few months. Do not expect romantic dinner, nice flowers and smooth talking forever. Too much familiarity kills the newness and dulls the fuse.
8. Men are hunters. Naturally they like chasing women….they actually enjoy the journey and sometimes lose interest after reaching the destination of sex. A woman can kill the chasing by talking too much about her personal details or taking the mystery out of the journey. Men live through the heart and emotions (even though they keep them well hidden) and lose interest when having to think too much!
9. Men like to teach women something. They believe it is part of their role as a “Knight in shining armour” riding to the rescue. But if women teach men, they believe it is whinging.
10. Men don’t like too many things being discussed at the same time. Never discuss love and commitment when they are watching TV, or discussing their jobs or hobbies. Men focus on things they can actually do and not on things that are hard to grasp….like love!
